However, that conversation in the car opened up a whole new level of understanding regarding what a visit is actually for. For all these years I had thought that having friends over was an opportunity to eat together, talk together, and maybe even play some music together. Not so, according to this new information I was able to pick up on between the lines of my wife's relaxed approach to having her own family over. Normally she would be stressed out for days or even weeks over the arrival of our visitors. And what would be the cause of this stress? It was, of course, the real reason behind having visitors over. Because the real reason is to show them how clean your bathroom is - even the downstairs one that no one ever uses anyway.
A Bathroom - Is it clean enough? |